When Jewellery Wouldn’t Stay… and Why That Makes Sense Now

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I remember… when I was growing up, I’d never keep jewellery for long, and I always wondered why I’d lose it.

I was so cross with myself. I’d lose my earrings, misplace necklaces — often gifts — and I couldn’t afford to replace them. Looking back, I also wonder if some pieces needed cleansing, or if I was still learning how to carry what I valued… maybe even taking on things before they were fully mine to hold. Those early childhood memories made me think it was safer not to wear jewellery at all.

It wasn’t just about losing things — it was about learning what I could trust myself to carry.

Then I got older and started collecting crystals — and they would come and go too, depending on the type.

Back then I didn’t fully understand them. I just knew they’d fulfil their purpose for a duration. Some stayed for a season, some for a week, and some felt like they helped me through something… then vanished like their shift was done.

But now I do wear jewellery — and I wear each item with purpose.

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What I wore today (and why)

Today I wore “444” placed around my neck.

Not just “on” me — around my throat and heart space, where my voice lives and where my truth sits when I’m brave enough to say it out loud. For me, 444 is a reminder of support and structure: that I’m held, guided, protected — and building something stable even when life feels like it’s moving too fast.

It’s that quiet message of:

“You are safe. Keep going. Keep building.”

I also wore 111 on my left wrist.

My left side is my receiving side — my inner world, my intuition, what I’m allowing in. 111 feels like a spark. A reset. A reminder to watch my thoughts and come back to intention. Like the universe tapping the glass gently saying:

“Be mindful. You’re creating.”

On my right wrist I wore red jasper.

The right side is action — output, protection, what I’m doing in the world. And red jasper… that’s grounded, steady energy. It’s rooted. It helps me feel anchored in my body and my choices — not floating, not overthinking, not spilling myself everywhere. It’s support for stamina, confidence, and calm strength.

I wore 777 on my right ankle.

Ankles are movement. Path. Direction. Where I’m going and how I’m walking there. For me, 777 is the sign of deeper alignment — that spiritual “you’re on the right road” feeling. Not forced luck, not random magic… more like confirmation that even my detours have meaning.

And on my left ankle I wore clear quartz.

Clear quartz is the amplifier — it clears, sharpens, lifts the signal. On my left side, it feels like I’m saying:

“Let me receive clearly. Let me hear what I need to hear. Let my intuition be sharp.”

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Tomorrow

I’ll wear lapis earrings tomorrow — and lapis is one of those stones that pulls toward truth, wisdom, and speaking from the soul. When I wake in the morning, I’ll share another post.

For now… sweet dreams.

Before I sleep, I’m sending love to you reading this. If you’ve ever felt like you couldn’t hold onto good things, I see you. At night, I used to want for much — anticipation of what tomorrow might hold — but now I’m at peace with what comes. Peace to you too, fellow soul.

I wasn’t losing things. I was learning what was meant to stay.

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